7 Relationship Advisors Tips to make a Good Impression during a Date

Dating is an essential part of our daily lives. Whether we are outgoing or always indoor, we will like to communicate and interact with others as humans. We want to feel appreciated and loved by that particular person. Love is the most vital part of our daily activities, which is why no matter how many times we feel disappointed, we will always be ready to bounce back and open our hearts to love all over again.

Despite the pandemic’s impact on our normal daily activities, still, we didn’t let that stop us from having a special moment with that special person. Instead, we came up with ideas that will allow us have that loving atmosphere and the environment through various innovative ideas. For example, rather than derive ourselves of important moments such as a date, people came up with virtual dating app and virtual club nights. Others organized open nightclubs where anyone in a particular area can listen to music and have an online chat with their loved ones to create a great atmosphere.

Now that everything is gradually getting back to normal including our social life. As humans, we will keep innovating to create relationship opportunities and have people we love close to our heart. It’s a new year already, if you are considering going on a date with someone, and need all the tips you can get to make a lasting impression then this article is for you. Whether it’s an online or offline date, we have some basic yet essential tips recommended by professional date advisors.

Tips for your First Date

Find a Perfect Location

If you have an offline date, it is essential to have the right spot. Yes, surprises are great as well. But to know the right spot means you must have paid a lot of attention during your conversations to understand what will work perfectly for your date. Choosing a nice location will definitely leave a lasting impression and make your date more magical; and leave room for more.

Be on Time

Whether you are meeting online or offline, you have to be there on time. Being late on your first date may give the other person a wrong perspective about you. Trust you wouldn’t want that?  Being prompt sends a message that you are serious about your date and do not take them for granted. Although most people won’t make a fuss about that, it will however set the tone for the rest of your day for that date. To avoid this, set an alert on your calendar to track your time and be on your way minutes or a hour before time.

Wear a Comfortable and Appropriate Outfit

We all know that looks alone will not keep a relationship for so long, but this is your first date, so looks are essential. The first thing anyone sees before hearing from you is your look; and if it’s not appropriate, that might set the tone for the rest of your date. As a man, wearing a good jacket with a shirt is always glue; pick the right colors, you won’t want to show up in hoard colors. Unfortunately, most men don’t pay enough attention to their dress when going out for a date. Most women complain about that, even if not directly to the man.

For women, wear something relaxing, long earrings if you have them, if not use what you have. Just ensure the combination, and the fashion is perfect. Take good care of your hair and style them into an ideal shape. However, you do not want to show up too sexy or revealing; that will set the tone for your personality from the onset.

Both men and women must appear sharp and crisp for their date. Avoid sandals, especially if you are meeting at a high-end restaurant.

Wear the Perfect Perfume

Smelling good is good business, therefore, take your time picking out your favorite perfume because smelling great is one of the essential ways to make a great first impression. However, you have to be careful enough not to pick the wrong perfume or overuse it. Instead of the perfume attracting your date to you, it can end up doing the exact opposite thing.

Don’t interview, be Adventurous Instead

Most people approach a first date with a lot of interview-like questions. But, unfortunately, these questions are commonly discussed at all dates and meet-ups. So you need to tune it down a little and pick interesting topics instead.

Now, instead of asking questions like; what do you do for a living? Ask “what makes you laugh the most.” Ditch interview questions and ask more profound questions that help you have a great conversation with your date.

This happens at times, because some people are not great with discussions; and they go with the usual questions. You can start with the following questions, and see how the flow goes. This can work perfectly during online and offline dates.

• What is your biggest fear?
• What type of movies do you love?
• Have you ever traveled the world?
• What animal interests you?
• Do you ever cry watching movies? If they answer yes, then follow up with the name of that movie.

 

Be a Good Listener

So many people try too hard when on a date. They talk a lot about themselves without looking out for their date. Some start talking about what they have achieved, what they do, and trying to big up themselves. That’s a total turn-off for dates; you have to show curiosity for your date, listen to them, and let them talk. Have a discussion and not a seminar. This is an important point for both online and offline dates.

Have a Few Drinks

Keep your drink within two drinks; don’t turn your date into a drinking party. This is not to sound like a parent, but you have to be very conscious all through your date and ensure you are not drunk. First dates are mostly about impression, and you have to try to have the best impression with your date.

Conclusion

Most people have had one or two unimpressive experience during their dates, while some actions or words were simply taken out of context; some were a true reflection of the person. Whichever one it is, relationship advisors have given these tips to making a lasting first impression if you really want to keep a great relationship with your dates. Whether you are meeting offline or online, most of the tips listed above will help you become a better date.