Dating Palava

My mind has been roaming around lately. While seated outside enjoying the cool weather, and surfing the internet, I came across a post talking about urgent 2k girls and Nigerian girls entitlement. 

Though I believe there are hard working women out there, but you see this issue of women expecting their lovers to provide for their needs is a societal conditioning and a kind of pressure from home.

This made me remember this experience. Ahmed was 15 year old when he had his first actual girlfriend (she comes over and play in Ahmed's family house). There relationship was just 3 month and this girl had been collecting feeding money from Ahmed for herself and family.

Few days to one of the Muslim's festival, judging from the conversation, Ahmed promised to buy the girl and her mother festive clothing. Remember this boy is merely a teenager living in his parents house and in SS2. 

So the girl called and was like, "when are you coming? You promised to come yesterday but you didn't, my mum is worried". 

Ahmed now said he has been busy bla bla and will come later in the day, while taking, the girl's mom took the phone from her daughter and was seriously praying for Ahmed for providing their needs and reminded him about her clothes. 

Bottom line is Ahmed kept banging their calls when it became incessant, his friend asked why dropping the call? He said " he had stole more than 10k from his family (different times) to provide the girl's need". So he's better he let her go to rob a bank. 

The question is, can't men date in peace again?

What's your dating entitlement experience?