A quick reminder to same sex folks; homosexual affair is not a cult/ fraternity.
You don't force someone to be gay or lesbian because you are.
You don't recruit, it's a lifestyle.
You don't pry on financially vulnerable people in exchange for sex or relationship.
You don't form association for being a lesbian or gay.
You don't threaten your partner with death for choosing to swing both ways( bi sexual).
When a lover decides to stop loving you, let them be.
If a lover finds out that she/he was just being curious and finally choose to be straight let them be.